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Stay close to the people who matter.
Tend texts you a gentle reminder every couple of weeks to reach out to your friends and loved ones. When you're ready to hang out, Tend can help you get something on the calendar. There's no app, and we don't sell your data. Our north star is to help you connect. And it's free.
It all happens over text.
Tend lives in your messages. Add someone, and every couple of weeks you'll get a nudge to reach out. Reply, and Tend keeps track. When you want the bigger picture, visit the web dashboard to see everyone in one place.
When you're ready to see someone, Tend sorts out the when.
You pick times. Choose 2 or 3 windows that work, from the dashboard or by texting PLAN.
Share the link. Your friend doesn't need an account.
They pick one. Your friend taps the time that works. You both get a confirmation and can optionally download a calendar event.
Add your people.
We only save a name and last initial.
Get reminders to reach out.
Tend checks back in after a few days.
Plan a meet-up.
Text PLAN to get something on the calendar.
Tend isn't for your attention. It's for real, social connection.
No app.
It works in the texts you already send. There's nothing to download, and no account sign-up.
Free.
Reminders don't cost anything.
Private.
We only collect your first name, your number, and a first name and last initial for each person. We will never sell your data.
Low-key by design.
Tend nudges you, then leaves you alone. It's meant to be used lightly.
How much does it cost?›
Tend is free. (Your carrier's usual message and data rates may apply.)
How often will I hear from Tend?›
About every couple of weeks for each person you add. Reply STOP anytime to pause everything.
What's a meet-up?›
When you're ready to see someone, text PLAN and their name (or tap "Plan a meet-up" on the dashboard). Pick a few times that work, and Tend gives you a link to share. Your friend picks a time, you get a notification and you both get a calendar file.
Is it an app?›
No. Tend works entirely over text. There's an optional web dashboard at app.tendsms.com to see everyone in one place, but you never have to leave your messages.
What data do you collect?›
Just your first name, your phone number, and a first name and last initial for each person you add. Nothing else, and we never sell it. See our privacy policy.
What kind of phone do I need?›
Any phone that can send a text. No smartphone required.
How do I unsubscribe?›
Reply STOP to any message.
Who's behind Tend?›
Someone who wanted to stay in better touch with his friends and loved ones. Learn more.